I’m in total shock! I found out yesterday that my boyfriend has been having phone sex with women he doesn’t even know for the last six months. He rings these premium rate numbers and chats away for hours at a time. I’m totally disgusted by the thought of it. I even feel betrayed. I can’t even begin to understand why he would want to do it. I thought our sex life was pretty good. Why would he want to talk dirty to other women? Am I not good enough? It has really made me think differently about him. He could be talking to these women about all sorts of perverted things; things that he shouldn’t even be thinking. How can I ever forgive him or even trust him after this? I’m going to have to tell him that it’s over between us. I don’t even want to be associated with him right now.